{"id":4013,"date":"2026-04-24T06:30:00","date_gmt":"2026-04-24T00:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/a-girl-next-door.com\/?p=4013"},"modified":"2026-04-20T15:10:14","modified_gmt":"2026-04-20T09:10:14","slug":"celle-qui-repondait-toujours-ca-va-meme-quand-c-est-faux","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/a-girl-next-door.com\/en\/celle-qui-repondait-toujours-ca-va-meme-quand-c-est-faux\/","title":{"rendered":"The one who always answered &quot;it&#039;s fine&quot;... even when it wasn&#039;t true"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure class=\"wp-block-audio\"><audio controls src=\"https:\/\/a-girl-next-door.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Celle-qui-repondait-toujours-_ca-va_-meme-quand-cest-faux-1.wav\"><\/audio><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:32px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You know that girl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It might be your colleague, the one who always arrives with a smile and answers <em>\u00ab&quot; it&#039;s good and you ? &quot;\u00bb <\/em>before you&#039;ve even finished your question. Maybe it&#039;s your best friend, the one who manages everything, all the time, and whom you&#039;ve never really had to ask if she was okay, because she was always okay. Or maybe, and this is where it gets a little more uncomfortable, it&#039;s you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u00ab&quot; How are you &quot;\u00bb<\/em> It&#039;s become your thing. Your reflex. Applicable in all situations without exception: Monday morning, Christmas with the family, unclear medical results, a poorly digested breakup. <em>\u00ab&quot; How are you &quot;\u00bb <\/em>It covers everything. You say it so often that you&#039;re now bringing it up before even checking if it&#039;s true.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If we pay attention, we can decode the variations. Because there are several ways to say <em>\u00ab&quot; How&#039;s it going &quot;\u00bb<\/em> when things aren&#039;t going really well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:28px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There is the <em>\u00ab&quot; How&#039;s it going &quot;\u00bb<\/em> It&#039;s simple, you say, looking at your phone. This one means you&#039;re tired in a way you can&#039;t really explain. Not tired of anything in particular. Just tired, generally. Like, tired of having a lot on your plate and not many people to really tell. But anyway. <em>\u00ab&quot; How are you. &quot;\u00bb<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There is the <em>\u00ab&quot;It&#039;s okay, it&#039;s okay&quot;\u00bb <\/em>with repetition\u2014that&#039;s a signal that everyone ignores, yet everyone understands. No one who&#039;s truly well says <em>\u00ab&quot; How&#039;s it going &quot;\u00bb <\/em>twice. That&#039;s the <em>\u00ab&quot; How&#039;s it going &quot;\u00bb <\/em>who is trying to convince himself. If you hear him, insist. Just one more question. That&#039;s often enough to open something up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There is the <em>\u00ab&quot;Yes, yes, everything is fine.&quot;\u00bb <\/em>Defensive\u2014that one comes out when the other person notices something. A silence that&#039;s a little too long, a smile that doesn&#039;t quite ring true. You&#039;re not ready to talk about it. Not because you don&#039;t want to\u2014because you know that if you start, you&#039;ll really have to confront him. So you pass the buck. <em>\u00ab&quot; And you ? &quot;\u00bb<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And then there&#039;s the <em>\u00ab&quot;Yeah, it&#039;s okay.&quot;\u00bb<\/em>, The accident. The one you hadn&#039;t planned on letting slip. The truth that slips out before your head catches up with your mouth. It&#039;s the most honest of all. And the one you regret the most, because afterwards you have to deal with the other person&#039;s gaze, the one who&#039;s figured it all out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">On social media, your &quot;\u00ab\u00a0<em>How&#039;s it going &quot;\u00bb<\/em> It takes the form of a well-framed sunset with a caption about small joys and gratitude. What you wanted to post: a blurry photo at 11 p.m. in your pajamas with the caption <em>\u00ab&quot;I&#039;m not really sure where I stand at this point.&quot;\u00bb<\/em> What you posted: the sunset. Twelve likes. Three hearts. And you replied &quot;\u00ab\u00a0<em>THANKS &quot;\u00bb<\/em> with a smiley face emoji, of course.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">How are you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:33px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The thing with you is, what to say <em>\u00ab&quot; How&#039;s it going &quot;\u00bb <\/em>When things aren&#039;t going well, it&#039;s become so natural that we&#039;ve forgotten there&#039;s another option. No need to spill everything to the cashier at Monoprix. No two-hour monologue that scares people away. Just sometimes, a <em>\u00ab&quot;Meh, a complicated day.&quot;\u00bb<\/em> Three words that open a door without forcing it open. That let the other person decide whether to enter or not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And what happens is unexpected: it gives the other person permission to respond truthfully as well. Suddenly you&#039;re no longer two people just passing each other by. You&#039;re two people truly talking to each other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&#039;s rare. It&#039;s a bit strange for the first few seconds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And that&#039;s fine.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You know her, that girl. Maybe she&#039;s your colleague, the one who always arrives with a smile and answers &quot;How are you?&quot; before you&#039;ve even finished your question. Maybe she&#039;s your best friend, the one who handles everything, all the time, and whom you&#039;ve never really had to ask if she&#039;s okay because she&#039;s always been okay. Or, and this is where it gets a little more uncomfortable, it&#039;s you. &quot;I&#039;m fine&quot; has become your go-to. Your reflex. Applicable in every situation without exception: Monday morning, Christmas with the family, unclear medical results, a breakup you haven&#039;t gotten over. &quot;I&#039;m fine&quot; covers everything. You say it so often that you now blurt it out before even checking if it&#039;s true. If we pay attention, we can decode the variations. Because there are several ways to say &quot;I&#039;m fine&quot; when you&#039;re not really fine. There&#039;s the simple &quot;I&#039;m fine,&quot; said while looking at your phone. That one means you&#039;re tired in a way you can&#039;t really explain. Not tired of anything in particular. Just tired, overall. Like, tired of having a lot on your plate and not many people to really tell. But anyway. &quot;It&#039;s okay.&quot; There&#039;s the &quot;it&#039;s okay, it&#039;s okay&quot; with the repetition\u2014that&#039;s a signal everyone ignores but everyone understands anyway. No one who&#039;s truly okay says &quot;it&#039;s okay&quot; twice. It&#039;s the &quot;it&#039;s okay&quot; trying to convince itself. If you hear it, press on. Just one more question. That&#039;s often enough for something to open up. Then there&#039;s the defensive &quot;yes, yes, everything&#039;s fine&quot;\u2014that one comes out when the other person has noticed something. A silence that&#039;s a little too long, a smile that didn&#039;t quite ring true. You&#039;re not ready to talk about it. Not because you don&#039;t want to\u2014because you know that if you start, you&#039;ll really have to face it. So you throw the ball back. &quot;And you?&quot; And then there&#039;s the &quot;meh, I&#039;m fine,&quot; the slip-up. The one you hadn&#039;t planned on letting slip. The truth that slips out before your head catches up with your mouth. It&#039;s the most honest of all. And the one you regret the most, because afterward you have to deal with the other person&#039;s gaze, who&#039;s figured it all out. On social media, your &quot;I&#039;m fine&quot; takes the form of a perfectly framed sunset with a caption about little joys and gratitude. What you wanted to post: a blurry photo at 11 p.m. in your pajamas with the caption &quot;I&#039;m not really sure where I stand right now.&quot; What you posted: the sunset. Twelve likes. Three hearts. And you replied &quot;thanks&quot; with a smiley face emoji, of course. I&#039;m fine. The thing about you is that saying &quot;I&#039;m fine&quot; when things aren&#039;t has become so natural that we&#039;ve forgotten there&#039;s another option. No need to spill everything to the cashier at Monoprix. No two-hour monologue that scares people away. Just sometimes, a &quot;meh, tough day.&quot; Three words that open a door without forcing it open. That let the other person decide whether to enter or not. And what it does is unexpected: it gives the other person permission to respond truthfully, too. Suddenly, you&#039;re not just two people passing each other. You&#039;re two people truly talking to each other. It&#039;s rare. It&#039;s a little strange for the first few seconds. And then it&#039;s good.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4014,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[670],"tags":[938,940],"class_list":["post-4013","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-podcast","tag-ca-va","tag-ca-va-pas"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.8 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Celle qui r\u00e9pondait toujours &quot;\u00e7a va&quot;... m\u00eame quand c&#039;est faux - A Girl Next Door<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"On dit &quot;\u00e7a va&quot; des dizaines de fois par jour sans vraiment v\u00e9rifier si c&#039;est vrai. 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