{"id":4013,"date":"2026-04-24T06:30:00","date_gmt":"2026-04-24T00:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/a-girl-next-door.com\/?p=4013"},"modified":"2026-04-20T15:10:14","modified_gmt":"2026-04-20T09:10:14","slug":"celle-qui-repondait-toujours-ca-va-meme-quand-c-est-faux","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/a-girl-next-door.com\/en\/celle-qui-repondait-toujours-ca-va-meme-quand-c-est-faux\/","title":{"rendered":"The one who always answered &quot;it&#039;s fine&quot;... even when it wasn&#039;t true"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure class=\"wp-block-audio\"><audio controls src=\"https:\/\/a-girl-next-door.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Celle-qui-repondait-toujours-_ca-va_-meme-quand-cest-faux-1.wav\"><\/audio><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:32px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>You know that girl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It might be your colleague, the one who always arrives with a smile and answers <em>\u00ab&quot; it&#039;s good and you ? &quot;\u00bb <\/em>before you&#039;ve even finished your question. Maybe it&#039;s your best friend, the one who manages everything, all the time, and whom you&#039;ve never really had to ask if she was okay, because she was always okay. Or maybe, and this is where it gets a little more uncomfortable, it&#039;s you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u00ab&quot; How are you &quot;\u00bb<\/em> It&#039;s become your thing. Your reflex. Applicable in all situations without exception: Monday morning, Christmas with the family, unclear medical results, a poorly digested breakup. <em>\u00ab&quot; How are you &quot;\u00bb <\/em>It covers everything. You say it so often that you&#039;re now bringing it up before even checking if it&#039;s true.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If we pay attention, we can decode the variations. Because there are several ways to say <em>\u00ab&quot; How&#039;s it going &quot;\u00bb<\/em> when things aren&#039;t going really well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:28px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>There is the <em>\u00ab&quot; How&#039;s it going &quot;\u00bb<\/em> It&#039;s simple, you say, looking at your phone. This one means you&#039;re tired in a way you can&#039;t really explain. Not tired of anything in particular. Just tired, generally. Like, tired of having a lot on your plate and not many people to really tell. But anyway. <em>\u00ab&quot; How are you. &quot;\u00bb<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There is the <em>\u00ab&quot;It&#039;s okay, it&#039;s okay&quot;\u00bb <\/em>with repetition\u2014that&#039;s a signal that everyone ignores, yet everyone understands. No one who&#039;s truly well says <em>\u00ab&quot; How&#039;s it going &quot;\u00bb <\/em>twice. 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And the one you regret the most, because afterwards you have to deal with the other person&#039;s gaze, the one who&#039;s figured it all out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On social media, your &quot;\u00ab\u00a0<em>How&#039;s it going &quot;\u00bb<\/em> It takes the form of a well-framed sunset with a caption about small joys and gratitude. What you wanted to post: a blurry photo at 11 p.m. in your pajamas with the caption <em>\u00ab&quot;I&#039;m not really sure where I stand at this point.&quot;\u00bb<\/em> What you posted: the sunset. Twelve likes. Three hearts. And you replied &quot;\u00ab\u00a0<em>THANKS &quot;\u00bb<\/em> with a smiley face emoji, of course.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How are you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:33px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>The thing with you is, what to say <em>\u00ab&quot; How&#039;s it going &quot;\u00bb <\/em>When things aren&#039;t going well, it&#039;s become so natural that we&#039;ve forgotten there&#039;s another option. No need to spill everything to the cashier at Monoprix. No two-hour monologue that scares people away. Just sometimes, a <em>\u00ab&quot;Meh, a complicated day.&quot;\u00bb<\/em> Three words that open a door without forcing it open. That let the other person decide whether to enter or not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And what happens is unexpected: it gives the other person permission to respond truthfully as well. Suddenly you&#039;re no longer two people just passing each other by. You&#039;re two people truly talking to each other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#039;s rare. It&#039;s a bit strange for the first few seconds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And that&#039;s fine.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tu la connais, cette fille. C&rsquo;est peut-\u00eatre ta coll\u00e8gue, celle qui arrive toujours le sourire en place et qui r\u00e9pond \u00ab\u00a0\u00e7a va et toi ?\u00a0\u00bb avant m\u00eame que t&rsquo;aies fini ta question. C&rsquo;est peut-\u00eatre ta meilleure amie, celle qui g\u00e8re tout, tout le temps, et \u00e0 qui t&rsquo;as jamais vraiment eu \u00e0 demander si elle allait bien, parce qu&rsquo;elle allait toujours bien. Ou alors, et l\u00e0 \u00e7a devient un peu plus inconfortable, c&rsquo;est toi. \u00ab\u00a0\u00c7a va\u00a0\u00bb c&rsquo;est devenu ton truc. Ton r\u00e9flexe. Applicable dans toutes les situations sans exception : lundi matin, No\u00ebl en famille, r\u00e9sultat m\u00e9dical flou, rupture mal dig\u00e9r\u00e9e. \u00ab\u00a0\u00c7a va\u00a0\u00bb couvre tout. Tu le dit tellement souvent que tu le sors maintenant avant m\u00eame d&rsquo;avoir v\u00e9rifi\u00e9 si c&rsquo;\u00e9tait vrai. Si on fait attention, on peut d\u00e9coder les variantes. Parce qu&rsquo;il y a plusieurs fa\u00e7ons de dire \u00ab\u00a0\u00e7a va\u00a0\u00bb quand \u00e7a va pas vraiment. Il y a le \u00ab\u00a0\u00e7a va\u00a0\u00bb tout simple, dit en regardant ton t\u00e9l\u00e9phone. Celui-l\u00e0 veut dire que tu es fatigu\u00e9e d&rsquo;une fa\u00e7on que tu ne saurais pas vraiment expliquer. Pas fatigu\u00e9e de quelque chose en particulier. Juste fatigu\u00e9e, globalement. Du genre fatigu\u00e9e d&rsquo;avoir beaucoup \u00e0 g\u00e9rer et pas grand monde \u00e0 qui le dire vraiment. Mais bon. \u00ab\u00a0\u00c7a va.\u00a0\u00bb Il y a le \u00ab\u00a0\u00e7a va \u00e7a va\u00a0\u00bb avec la r\u00e9p\u00e9tition \u2014 l\u00e0 c&rsquo;est un signal que tout le monde ignore et que tout le monde comprend quand m\u00eame. Personne qui va vraiment bien ne dit \u00ab\u00a0\u00e7a va\u00a0\u00bb deux fois. C&rsquo;est le \u00ab\u00a0\u00e7a va\u00a0\u00bb qui essaie de se convaincre lui-m\u00eame. Si tu l&rsquo;entends, insiste. Juste une question de plus. C&rsquo;est souvent suffisant pour que quelque chose s&rsquo;ouvre. Il y a le \u00ab\u00a0oui oui tout va bien\u00a0\u00bb d\u00e9fensif \u2014 celui-l\u00e0 sort quand l&rsquo;autre a remarqu\u00e9 quelque chose. Un silence un peu trop long, un sourire qui sonnait pas tout \u00e0 fait juste. Tu n&rsquo;es pas pr\u00eate \u00e0 en parler. Pas parce que tu ne veux pas \u2014 parce que tu sais que si tu commences, il va falloir vraiment l&rsquo;affronter. Alors tu renvoies la balle. \u00ab\u00a0Et toi ?\u00a0\u00bb Et puis il y a le \u00ab\u00a0mouais \u00e7a va\u00a0\u00bb, l&rsquo;accident. Celui que tu n&rsquo;avais pas pr\u00e9vu de laisser \u00e9chapper. La v\u00e9rit\u00e9 qui se glisse avant que la t\u00eate ait rattrap\u00e9 la bouche. C&rsquo;est le plus honn\u00eate de tous. Et celui que tu regrettes le plus, parce qu&rsquo;apr\u00e8s il faut g\u00e9rer le regard de l&rsquo;autre qui a tout compris. Sur les r\u00e9seaux sociaux, ton \u00ab\u00a0\u00e7a va\u00a0\u00bb prend la forme d&rsquo;un coucher de soleil bien cadr\u00e9 avec une l\u00e9gende sur les petits bonheurs et la gratitude. Ce que tu voulais poster : une photo floue \u00e0 23h en pyjama avec \u00e9crit \u00ab\u00a0je ne sais pas trop o\u00f9 j&rsquo;en suis l\u00e0.\u00a0\u00bb Ce que tu as post\u00e9 : le coucher de soleil. Douze likes. Trois c\u0153urs. Et tu as r\u00e9pondu \u00ab\u00a0merci\u00a0\u00bb avec un \u00e9moji sourire, bien s\u00fbr. \u00c7a va. Le truc avec toi, c&rsquo;est que dire \u00ab\u00a0\u00e7a va\u00a0\u00bb quand \u00e7a ne va pas est devenu tellement naturel qu&rsquo;on a oubli\u00e9 qu&rsquo;il y avait une autre option. Pas besoin de tout d\u00e9baller \u00e0 la caissi\u00e8re du Monoprix. Pas le monologue de deux heures qui fait fuir les gens. Juste des fois, un \u00ab\u00a0bof, journ\u00e9e compliqu\u00e9e.\u00a0\u00bb Trois mots qui ouvrent une porte sans l&rsquo;enfoncer. Qui laissent l&rsquo;autre d\u00e9cider d&rsquo;entrer ou pas. Et ce que \u00e7a fait c&rsquo;est inattendu : \u00e7a donne la permission \u00e0 l&rsquo;autre de r\u00e9pondre vrai aussi. D&rsquo;un coup vous \u00eates plus deux personnes qui se croisent. Vous \u00eates deux personnes qui se parlent vraiment. C&rsquo;est rare. C&rsquo;est un peu bizarre les premi\u00e8res secondes. 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